Communication

   There are many different ways for people to communicate. When most people think about communicating they think of talking, but there are many different things that contribute to talking with are the sounds you make, the type of language you use, and the tone of voice you use. These help to show your mentor that you respect them with the type of language and tone you use. Secondly, there is listening and hearing that contributes to communicating. Listening and showing that you clearly hear your mentor tells them that you care about what they are talking about. Also, non-verbal communication which to me is a very important way to communicate, because it includes your facial expressions, body language, and posture. Even though you talk and use the tone that is acceptable for the situation, but everything you are not saying is what really gives anyone their opinion about you. For example, if you are in an interview with a smile on your face, confident movements, and a straight posture you are more likely to put a good impression on anyone. Rather that making weird faces, awkward movements, and a sloppy posture. Also, there is written communication which is emails, texts, and phone calls. You need to use correct grammar within these, because of not you will be seen as disqualified for the job. Lastly, one of the main communications is visual, which is really like pictures that your mentor, or employer could possibly see. So this is really talking about social media. So, you only want to put things on social media that you want them to see, because they can see who you are by a picture, without you even being there to explain what is happening. So, they can interpret anything they want from it. These are many ways to communicate with people to help them know you better, and how to act during an interview.

     There are also many expectations about communications with different people. Like with your friends you would just be yourself, but the more laid back kind. You would usually greet them with a scream and a big hug. Then talk to them about all the new gossip you heard at school. Whereas, with your family you would greet them with with a hug. You would still act yourself around them and tell them what you're going through, but you will not go into as much details as you told your friend. You would also treat your family with a certain respect. Lastly, they way you would want to communicate with your employer at a job interview would be to introduce yourself along with a firm, yet gentle handshake. Also, to look them in the eye as you do this. You tell them about the basics about you, like your certification, why you would be good for them, and how you can contribute to them.

      I now further understand how I need to communicate with my mentor by doing this project. I will make sure not to just respond with one word answers, if needed. Because this will show that I am listening. I will also try to use great non-verbal communication, by using good-eye contact, and a great posture. Also, I will do my best to always show and share my ideas and concerns. Also, by doing these things it will help me to do better and accomplish more in my Mentorship.